FAQ For Couples
Can My Marriage Be Saved?
When is it too late to get help?
Why does your Rekindle The PromiseTM program work?
How do I know if this is the right program for us?
Can I take this program on my own?
What are the results I can expect from taking this program?
How does the live program differ from the Home Study program?
Can My Marriage Be Saved?
Any marriage can be saved regardless of its current state. The key to beginning the process is that both partners need to be willing to save their marriage. They also need to be committed to each other and to our proprietary process. You both need to come to the table ready to make the necessary changes. A desire to make your marriage successful, and a determined attitude are what you need to start. We'll help you do the rest!
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When is it Too Late to Get Help?
It is never too late to get help improving your marraige. In order to create a successful relationship you need information, skills and guidelines to make it work well. That's where we come in. All you need to do is want to have a great marriage and be willing to do the necessary work to get it on track. We'll take you step-by-step through a process that will reconnect you and help you fall in love again, all the while giving you proven tools to create a happy, fulfilled marriage.
Note: If there is physical abuse in the marriage, our programa are not suitable for that situation.
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Why Does Your Rekindle The PromiseTM Program Work?
The biggest challenge facing most couples is that over time they become complacent in their marriage and lose the feelings of love, passion, and commitment that they shared at the beginning of their marriage.
Rekindle The PromiseTM helps couple get back to those strong feelings of love and the promise of commitment that they made on their wedding day.
No matter what anyone says, the truth is that if you don't "feel" the love, you will become inreasingly disconnected from your partner. When you are disconnected and "out of love" you don't care enough to make the necessary effort to be a great partner. This means you no longer try to meet your spouse's needs. When needs are not met, issues arise, and resentment quickly follows. Couples spin their wheels, uncertain about how to get out of the never-ending cycle of resentment and hurt.
That is why, without feeling the love, any work you do to learn new relationship skills is not going to be effective in the long term. Learning the skills without a solid foundation of "love" is not going to change a thing in your marriage.
The only way to save a marriage is to help the partners reconnect and recapture the love. Once "falling in love" has been set in motion, the couple can then focus on learning and implementing the marriage skills they need to make their relationship happy and fulfilling.
Rekindle The PromiseTM takes a unique approach to the challenge that many couples face -- how to create and sustain a wonderful marriage.
Our proprietary coaching program model is so effective because it combines the following key elements, giving you the best lieklihood of success:
- We help you reconnect and fall in love again;
- We educate, sharing relevant relationship information that will provide life-long tools to keep the couple's marriage on track;
- We provide numerous opportunities for relationship skill development and ongoing practice;
- We help the client change they way they think, so they can understand and modify the patterns, attitudes and behaviours that do not support their relationship, and replace them with those that do;
- We provide ongoing coaching support and mentoring, so the client is supported and not alone.
It's the magic potion!
We offer both a live coaching program and a Home Study program.
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How Do I Know if This is the Right Program for Us?
Our Rekindle The PromiseTM programs will improve all marriages regardless of how the partners currently feel about each other.
1. Couples in Good Marriages -This is a great program for couples who have good marriages and want to take their marriage to a deeper, more intimate and fulfilling level.
2. Couples in Unfulfilling Marriages - If you don't feel the "love" like you once did; if you feel bored, disconnected, don't communicate, have limited or no sex, feel emotionally neglected, then this program can transform your marriage.
3. Couples Whose Marriage is in Crisis - If you constantly argue, have issues with lack of trust, infidelity (including emotional infidelity), are considering separation or divorce, feel hopeless, then this program can turn your marriage around.
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Can I Take This Program on My Own?
It takes both partners to improve a marriage. Often, only one partner recognizes the need for help and is willing to seek it. If that is your situation and you have a reluctant spouse, we recommend sharing the article "Is My Marriage Worth It?"
If you genuinely want to give your marriage a chance for long-term success, approach your spouse with an open and genuine heart. Ask for their help to save your marriage. We can help, but you both need to be willing to give it your all.
If you are alone in this process initially, we recommend the Home Study program to start the process. You will gain valuable insights and learn some crucial skills to begin to improve your marriage. Ultimately, in order to affect the change you want, you will need to have your spouse participate in the process.
Remember, any marriage can be improved if BOTH partners want to make it work.
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What Are the Results I Can Expect From Taking This Program?
You will get out of our programs what you put into them. In other words, if you have specific goals that you want to achieve for your marriage, our programs can help you realize those goals. You need to have the right desire and commitment to make the changes that are necessary to yield the results you want.
Generally, couples completing the Rekindle The PromiseTM program will experience the following results:
- You will be able to quickly make a shift in the negative thinking and attitudes that sabotage your marriage;
- You will be able to commit to your spouse and your marriage in a way you never have before;
- You will fall in love again, and develop a deeper level of trust and intimacy;
- You will love and support each other in the way you need and want to be loved;
- You will improve the way you communicate so that you both listen with your heart to your partner, and feel heard by them;
- You will be able to hold in check your emotional, reactive responses (like anger, frustration, etc.) to negotiate common ground on any issue of conflict, and manage your differences;
- You will develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner, learning to accept who you both are and how you fit together;
- You will learn to focus on what is truly important and minimize what isn't;
- You will be able to create a shared vision of your life that includes your individual dreams.
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How Does the Live Program Compare to the Home Study Program?
The live Rekindle The PromiseTM program includes a 2 day couples workshop lead by the program developer and founder of The Marriage Advocates, Frankie Doiron. Frankie is a certified Master Relationship Coach and an internationally recognized relationship expert. She is also the president of the Relationship Coaching Institute, the world's largest international relationship coach training organization.
The live event provides a rich learning environment with Frankie that can't be replicated in a Home Study program, providing the quickest transformation to get your marriage on track immediately. It is highly recommended that you attend a live program if possible.
Schedule of Upcoming Live Rekindle The PromiseTM programs.
Both live and Home Study programs offer the same structured online training program, couples training manuals, and weekly coaching support calls.
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